awww... iz you tiyerd?

so, my husband is in the navy and just got back to work on the big black tylenol. and he started duty days again. and although it sucks that he has to sleep in a rack the width and length of a love seat, he still gets to sleep alone. without much disruption. i mean granted he had the mid watch, which is from midnight to four, but he got to sleep before and after. so how come when he comes home he is soooo tired, and grumpy? i don't get it. one day of duty and they get the next day to be jerks because they are "soooo day after"!?! hell! i haven't had a decent nights sleep since we left connecticut (in february) and i don't get an excuse! do i get to be day after, when i have to wake up and let the dog out to take a shit a five in the morning? do i get to be week after when the kids have been acting like godzilla, and i am dealing with my "monthly visitor"? i sure as hell didn't get to be month after when i came from three weeks in the valley! so WTF? maybe there is something i don't understand. maybe duty is really crappy. but then again, sometimes i would totally trade a shitty day cleaning and laundering with screaming kids to be back at work, filing, and dealing with crappy patients that need copies of their files NOW! at least then i know i will have two breaks, and a lunch half hour to myself. and if i could've done that, and come home to dinner being made for me, and my shit picked up, i think i would've grown up to be a man. maybe then i could get away with complaining.